I like to think I ask good questions and speak to the point. I have also become self aware over the years of my willingness to do so. Frequently. My own practice has become taking the “ten second pause” before opening my mouth; sometimes the question remains, yet at others there is someone else who takes the space to ask or the question is clarified without needing to ask. I am also white. And a man. I realize my own marginalized identities of being queer and nuerodivergent are not easily recognized by others in the same way as being female bodied or have a different skin pigmentation would be. All of us experience the ways that social…